tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24485094.post4267608798996983161..comments2023-11-02T03:48:05.473-07:00Comments on ACROSS THE MILES: starryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00250437477875291892noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24485094.post-46971554470792190472008-10-17T19:34:00.000-07:002008-10-17T19:34:00.000-07:00He must have felt like a complete failure both as ...He must have felt like a complete failure both as a husband and as a father by not being able to properly support his family. We will never know why he felt he had to take everyone with him. Such a tragic terrible thing for anyone to do.Dotmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10223020957303815620noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24485094.post-51007465104027073902008-10-13T12:54:00.000-07:002008-10-13T12:54:00.000-07:00i'm sorry to hear this. a man who took lives of ot...i'm sorry to hear this. a man who took lives of others<BR/>and train crashed, could it be even worse? i think it is the money that causes the root. it is always have to do with the money in any given situation. <BR/><BR/>hope you're doing well!Kaihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03525571908541394623noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24485094.post-21264365707021904102008-10-13T10:50:00.000-07:002008-10-13T10:50:00.000-07:00An all-american tragedy! Given the present day eco...An all-american tragedy! Given the present day economic crisis I wonder how many such tragedies will come to be!Id it ishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10933156607975500727noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24485094.post-74894055155930487922008-10-12T20:10:00.000-07:002008-10-12T20:10:00.000-07:00Had read about this. SAD. I think money is the roo...Had read about this. SAD. I think money is the root of all problems, but nobody has the right to kill his/her children.Diana Sahuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11929690562968107647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24485094.post-73099686122210789562008-10-10T21:51:00.000-07:002008-10-10T21:51:00.000-07:00u have been tagged:)u have been tagged:)Renuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052079745061422542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24485094.post-80594777139175728252008-10-09T22:34:00.000-07:002008-10-09T22:34:00.000-07:00i don feel sorry for him for the same exact reason...i don feel sorry for him for the same exact reason.money is but when has it not been?Krithikahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10222964295361192404noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24485094.post-79750617689847799462008-10-09T21:50:00.000-07:002008-10-09T21:50:00.000-07:00KK :)**but personally I feel it could have been av...KK :)<BR/><BR/>**but personally I feel it could have been avoided provided he thought rationally<BR/><BR/>however rational thinking dun happen when ppl r in depression.<BR/><BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24485094.post-57596015960641356912008-10-08T22:34:00.000-07:002008-10-08T22:34:00.000-07:00Hi Starry... I am fine.. How are you?? Good to see...Hi Starry... I am fine.. How are you?? Good to see you again... :D<BR/><BR/>It's sad, but personally I feel it could have been avoided provided he thought rationally. I dont think any one has the rights to take the life of anyone... As you said there are so many things to do than taking lives...KKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17338797328246629533noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24485094.post-83804989324612086602008-10-08T22:02:00.000-07:002008-10-08T22:02:00.000-07:00sad. But what we may not be aware is that he could...sad. But what we may not be aware is that he could have been in serious debt. In that case, even if he kills himself sparing his family, they have to face the heat. where does "selfish" come here?<BR/><BR/>//he was still young and could have worked again and made up the loss ,I don't know what made him do what he did,//<BR/><BR/>This is not some petty debt that people are finding themselves in, but astronomical sums they can't recover, no matter how hard they try.<BR/><BR/>Its troubled times, now.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04134320373322985121noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24485094.post-18272185041483860332008-10-08T20:39:00.000-07:002008-10-08T20:39:00.000-07:00very sad news, read it her ein the papers, someone...very sad news, read it her ein the papers, someone said he was a high strung personality. But whatever it was, suicide is never a solution, and killing ur whole family is a heinous crime.<BR/>I hate this type of cowards, who cant face the failure in life. Its life and not always a bed of roses, one must be prepared for the good and bad both.<BR/>This situation arrives in the life of many people, and more when people live byond their means or do little savings.<BR/>The solution lies only in saving for a rainy dayRenuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052079745061422542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24485094.post-83850266246311352982008-10-08T19:25:00.000-07:002008-10-08T19:25:00.000-07:00I can't see your other blog. It is light blue on w...I can't see your other blog. It is light blue on white. I can only read it if I highlight it.dmarkshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07269773990064736457noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24485094.post-16189111019038957602008-10-08T16:56:00.000-07:002008-10-08T16:56:00.000-07:00yes Starry I agree totally wit wut u said.It is OK...yes Starry I agree totally wit wut u said.<BR/><BR/>It is OK not to have! So true. <BR/><BR/>alot of ppl think that HAVING alot of things in life is the BEST life ever. But HAVING courage and strength to face dire situations in life is actually the BEST life that anyone can ever have. we often forget that.<BR/><BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24485094.post-58153959456592543482008-10-08T09:19:00.000-07:002008-10-08T09:19:00.000-07:00jeevan..yes people come first then money.we have n...jeevan..yes people come first then money.we have no right to take some one elses life.starryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00250437477875291892noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24485094.post-34486985786483629112008-10-08T09:18:00.000-07:002008-10-08T09:18:00.000-07:00Devika,thanks and I do think maybe not the love of...Devika,thanks and I do think maybe not the love of money but the thought of not having too much or greed for more eventually made him desperate.But to take the lives of his whole family is just unforgivable.starryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00250437477875291892noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24485094.post-72516466677328927522008-10-08T09:16:00.000-07:002008-10-08T09:16:00.000-07:00srijith.You are rght, it is the coward that attemp...srijith.You are rght, it is the coward that attempts suicide,I am against Guns and it is so easy for people to buy guns.I wish the laws would change.starryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00250437477875291892noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24485094.post-26281870356433856002008-10-08T08:45:00.000-07:002008-10-08T08:45:00.000-07:00Keshi I have to agree with you on all your comment...Keshi I have to agree with you on all your comments.you don't have to live like your neighbors or have things that you cannot aford, and it is OK not to have.I think he could have been honest with his family and should havestarted all over again.he was still young.starryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00250437477875291892noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24485094.post-59421993458403919542008-10-07T23:04:00.000-07:002008-10-07T23:04:00.000-07:00Absolutely no, none have right to take other lives...Absolutely no, none have right to take other lives, but for some lived in more money struggles without. I think its fear brought to killing than bending down before this society without money. Its eternity to accept anything comes by, more than money life is precise isn’t, thus money matters important than people in society which should change. Nothing comes at end, except people.<BR/><BR/>Very sad and shocking news!Jeevanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14063201530500784222noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24485094.post-69032185050711841562008-10-07T22:51:00.000-07:002008-10-07T22:51:00.000-07:00Hi Starry!I love the title of your post because to...Hi Starry!<BR/><BR/>I love the title of your post because to me the title question suggests an answer too -- 'could be'<BR/><BR/>and I liked your post too..becuase it suggests people to look at options for life..<BR/><BR/>I read the LA news here in Economic Times y'day...Sad, but perplexed...<BR/><BR/>In India hundreds of farmers die every year, some killing their families too,..or its joint decision to die...<BR/><BR/>Money is at the root of their problems too...But they seem so hopeless in this world, living at the mercy of Nature and governments...But they never looked at other options--perhaps too naive and uneducated they were for the world...<BR/><BR/>But this man who killed himself and family for reasons of a man-made crisis...does he deserve our sympathies-- i can't say, dead need no sympathies afterall!<BR/><BR/>see you again!<BR/>devika<BR/><BR/>The Socio-Political Onlooker and Certain Kind of Woman have few new ones..and they miss you...You'd once been there promising to come again...please do come when you have time!Devika Jyothihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02349153846127145464noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24485094.post-8055892482053591362008-10-07T22:45:00.000-07:002008-10-07T22:45:00.000-07:00The man is not worthy of sympathy starry.! Life is...The man is not worthy of sympathy starry.! Life is a sinusoidal curve with ups and downs. Only cowards attempt suicide! Period!<BR/><BR/>Now if suicide wasn't enough, he goes about killing people, which is even more irritating. Where on earth did he get a gun.? Why is it so easy to procure guns in the U.S? Has it caused any peace so far. There are killings everywhere at the drop of a hat because of that.<BR/><BR/>Sad! Sad! Sad!srijithunnihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04897386632437180172noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24485094.post-48919075379733055172008-10-07T22:27:00.000-07:002008-10-07T22:27:00.000-07:00Come to think of it, alot of ppl these days live s...Come to think of it, alot of ppl these days live superficial lives...the moment they cant live upto that superficiality, they just snap. <BR/><BR/>This story is one such example...he had a top job and now he was unemployed...and mebbe that lead to unpaid bills and heavy mortgages...frustration sinks in...death n destruction seemed better than life. Why? all cos of trying to live upto Society's demands.<BR/><BR/><BR/>Thats why I dun go and do things that I cant AFFORD to do.<BR/><BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24485094.post-70496456586686682542008-10-07T21:54:00.000-07:002008-10-07T21:54:00.000-07:00Unemployment can make ppl go into Depression...but...Unemployment can make ppl go into Depression...but why kill the whole family?<BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24485094.post-23121532155485996222008-10-07T21:53:00.000-07:002008-10-07T21:53:00.000-07:00omg this is so sad! And that too Desis in US? so s...omg this is so sad! And that too Desis in US? so shocking!<BR/><BR/>My policy is that if Im frustrated and I wanna die, I'll die alone. Why take someone else's life too!!! SO SELFISH n UNFAIR.<BR/><BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24485094.post-63929387308292971842008-10-07T21:22:00.000-07:002008-10-07T21:22:00.000-07:00pria..yes it was so sad.I felt really sad for the ...pria..yes it was so sad.I felt really sad for the wole family but especially for the 19yr old.he was on a full scholarship to UCLA,he would have gone on to become someone and would have helped the family.I think it was his ego,he did not want his family to think that he had messed up the finances.starryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00250437477875291892noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24485094.post-65139136137177991292008-10-07T21:19:00.001-07:002008-10-07T21:19:00.001-07:00deepsat..so true.deepsat..so true.starryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00250437477875291892noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24485094.post-62831921260812401752008-10-07T21:19:00.000-07:002008-10-07T21:19:00.000-07:00Hillgrandmom..thats how I feel.Hillgrandmom..thats how I feel.starryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00250437477875291892noreply@blogger.com